Sabtu, Juni 27, 2009

people for a season, reason or lifetime. .

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

The sentence above is an opening for a really beautiful message via email from my friend ( tengkyu for nonik cekingku ), and I have already sent the email to some of my close friends.

"When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done
"


After I read the line, I realize that I often be in that kind of situation. In my life, I have met lots and lots of people, but most of them are not for permanent. I am a type of person who can easily care for people around me, and I am confident enough to call them my friend. I wonder if some of u have been in the same situation as me. We met some people, we become quite close with them, and not in romantic way, because we are friends. They become part of our days, and suddenly one day, there will be some circumstances which make us have to grow apart with them eventually, and it's not because we fought with the person or something, but because the situation makes us,and no matter how we want to meet each other, there will always be something come in our way, and eventually we won't feel the need to meet with each other anymore. Usually this kind of person is the kind which we can never forget, we will always care for them. I have some people who came into my life, and they have change it in many different ways. Some of them change it with their help, some people change it by their compassion, some people change it with their physical and emotional aid, and some of them even change it with the way thy leave my live, and their own life.

These people bring something which make me the way I am today, and although sometimes I really miss them until it hurts, but I now understand that they have established their place at my heart and I am so thankful for them for coming into my life when I needed them the most, and I will always love and care for them.


Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to s
hare, grow, or learn.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.


Sometimes, it's hard for me to tell, whether people come into my life for a reason, or for a season. It's not like I am stuck and categorizing people, but sometimes it's much easier for me to cope with the separation when I know what to do with the people, haha. I know I sound shallow now :)

Well anyway,I really think that ex-boy/girlfriends we dated or the latest fling, etc. is the people I can call that. I believe that what I feel for them was real, but it doesn't mean that it's gonna last forever. These people usually bring us joy, and memorizing them will bring smile to our lips and heart, because they have made our life brighter, and losing them, although it may also hurt, but we can get over them soon and easy. I don't want to be a seasonal person to someone, and I don't think anybody want to be a seasonal person to someone, to be dumped and forgot when they were considered out of date, but however, once or more in our lifetime, there will be a moment when we meet or be the seasonal someone. What I want to say is, when it happen to u, don't bother to have and get every happiness u can get, be joyful, laugh as much as u can, enjoy your time, because that is what they come or we come into our or their life is for, and when the time is come, let them go willingly because we have already know that they only come for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

I think that some very special people come into our life and never go away. Some of them are people we love the most, and some of them, surprisingly, are people we don't care or expect to be by our side forever. Whoever the people are, I would like to congratulate people who have already have them, because it means that u have already got people who love u unconditionally, people who u know will always be by ur side no matter what, and to guide u through every aspect of ur life. I always thought that my best friends, or people I really care about, will always be the people in my life for my whole life. But apparently, life never goes the way we want it to be, and all we have to do is to accept the lesson, and now I'm so grateful that I am still able to be with people I do really care about, and I expect them to always be that way
,being in my life forever.

However u r, always be sure that u come in this world to bring something new and different for everyone around u, and for everyone who came, leave from, and stay in my life, be sure and always know that I do care and miss everyone of u. Love u, all :D














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